fix: tanstack query provider missing

[Lighno]

Summary

This should fix #372, the issue seems to be that QueryProvider was removed, I've manged to find some discussions related to the commit that removed the provider.
One comment linked to these docs so I assumed the intent was to use the ssr query package in the router and tried using it in this PR. Sorry if that wasn't the original intent

Changes

• Add @tanstack/react-router-ssr-query as a dependency for the query add-on
• Add some handling specific for tanstack query in the router
• Add the providers back from earlier commits

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I'm not very familiar with this code base and couldn't find a better way to do the following

• add the @tanstack/react-router-ssr-query to the router
• pull the query provider conditionally from the add-on (Added an empty provider for now)

Let me know if this is fine or there's a better way to do this, for now I've tested locally and made sure the add-ons work together and by themselves